Four months ago someone took you from us. Your smile, your understanding, your loving ways. That someone is evil. That someone should be held accountable. We will not let your death become a cold case and not be solved. We will keep on asking the questions and demanding the answers. You are forever in our lives in spirit even though you are not here in person. We pray for your family and hope that soon we will know the person that has taken you from us and he or she will be found and prosecuted. - Rita "Reets", 10/2/2009 8:42:20 PM Four months ago today, you called me when I was on my way home from work. Your birthday was the day before and you were SO happy! Your family had surprised you with a party and everything was falling into place. You were so happy with life, your voice was just beaming with excitement, happiness and joy! I am so grateful that we had that last chance to chat and that I know how happy you were with life. It's just so sad that someone had to snatch that away from you. We know you are with us in spirit, but we sure do miss you lots. Four months may have gone by, but there is not one day that passes that you are not thought of, or that we don't talk about you. We miss you girl! Please help justice be served....we can do this together....every one of us! I love and miss you so much. Like Tami said,"GONE, BUT NOT FORGOTTEN... NEVER FORGOTTEN..." - Annie, 10/2/2009 10:34:20 AM Gone, but not forgotten...never forgotten... - Tami, 9/20/2009 9:08:38 PM i wish there was e mail in heaven.... - pa, 9/13/2009 11:40:08 AM hey wendy, i need you now more than ever. and i know your watching me... please help me i know we can do it... love you - pa, 9/11/2009 1:52:51 PM Tree, three months ago tonight you left us. I hope you know how much that the ladies in the Livingroom loved you. I have to tell myself that you do. Ten years ago when I first got my computer I never, NEVER thought that a little machine would lead me to one of the most pleasant things in my life. This group you created for us to come and talk about anything and everything. Your presence is with us every day. But we miss you so much. Love ya, - Reets, 9/2/2009 9:05:04 PM hey wendy, i love you and miss you... give me a sign... - heartbroken in pa, 8/15/2009 1:32:44 PM Hi John, Thanks again for this amazing tribute to our "angel". It's so nice to see how much love she brought to everyone's life. I look forward to the Dateline NBC episode as well. Missing her terribly.... - Annie, 8/13/2009 3:26:06 PM John, this is absolutely lovely. So much love from so many to Wendy. When you get a date for the Dateline NBC episode, can you please post it. Thank you, as I am sure many of Wendy's friends are looking for the answers. - VCgirl, 8/8/2009 12:51:33 PM hey grammy tree...remember the time we were curling our hair and we made squares instead of circles? i miss you so much - sarah, 8/6/2009 3:31:57 PM John, You have done an excellent job with the tribute to our "Tree". Thank you so very much for being their for all of us who loved and admired her. The LivingRoom Ladies appreciate all you have done to remember and honor her. - Rita "Reets" Holifield, 8/4/2009 6:44:22 PM I added a second photo album today (pictures taken by guests Mark & Lois) of the tribute party for Wendy held on July 11th, 2009. A link to the second photo album is above. - John Dickson, 8/4/2009 3:30:05 PM i thought u were so strong youll make it threw what ever its so hard to acccept the fact that your gone forever i never knew i can hurt like this And everyday Life goes on like "I wish i could talk to you for awhile " "I wish i could find a way try not to cry" As time goes by and soon as you reach a better place still ill give the whole world to see your face and im rite here next to you it feels like you gone to soon the hardest thing to do is say bye bye - sarah, 7/28/2009 11:15:57 AM Our deepest sympathies and condolences for your devastating loss of such an obviously loved and loving person. We send prayers for justice. - Ann, 7/23/2009 12:51:22 AM John you have done such a fabulous job on this site. Myself and all of the ladies from Wendy's urticaria support group send lots of love to you and the swing dance folks who put all of this together. She was truly an angel sent to us all. I love to come her and see her smiling face. Thanks also for keeping the investigation alive with the Dateline piece. To all of you, we wish we could have been there to share in the tribute. You are fabulous and we love you for it. Wendy will never ever be forgotten. - Betty, 7/16/2009 5:21:02 PM Last Saturday evening, July 11th 2009, more than 90 people gathered at my home for a swing dance party to celebrate the life of Wendy Di Rodio. Everyone talked about her at some point during the evening. There were tears and much joy as Wendy's friends took a moment to remember her wonderful life. We also paid tribute to a swing dance friend of Wendy's, Randall Karr, who passed away from natural causes in January. I posted a photo album and a video (at the top of this page) of Wendy's friends enjoying the evening. I'll add more photos soon. We all miss her a lot. - John Dickson, 7/13/2009 6:10:18 PM So we tried to hard to understand, why you had to go away You were everything - you were everything So we'll just keep our heads to the sky Cause we know we're gonna see you in the next lifetime But it's never easy saying good-bye............ - sarah loves you...., 7/11/2009 10:48:15 AM john dickson, im not sure if you remember me but i was at one of your dance parties i think in about 2006. i wish i could come to the bar b q that would mean the world to me. but i know it cant happen but pleasse take alot of pictures of everyone and if u can send them to my e mail it is sjy6188@yahoo.com. wendy, its been one month and one week.and i still cant believe that tths is reality. i wish it was all just a bad dream and we would wake up. all together and start again. happy,fully of life and enegry just lke you always were. wendy they will find this horrible person. and hes going to get everything he deserves. flory, i just want you to know that i think about you all day everyday. i miss you and i wish i could be there to help out. or even just fot a hug. if you ever need anything please call me. i love you so much. - sarah, 7/10/2009 3:26:53 PM Idie, Mrs. Silver, Talia, Chris and family, Although I last saw Wendy at Talia's wedding, my vivid memories of her date back many years to my 7th grade science class. I still remember where Wendy sat in the class- the first row right in front of the teacher, Mr. Paulin. The reason she stood out in the class was because she always had her hand up with the correct answers. She was certainly the brightest student in a class of the best students in the school. However,she never "showed off" and was not condescending to the other students; she was just so smart. We all admired her intelligence. I also remember going to her house one afternoon after school. I remember that there was a parrot. Is that true? I am at an age that I don't remember recent information, but my longterm memory seems to be intact. I also remember meeting Mrs. Silver, and wishing I had as close a relationship with my mother as she seemed to have with her daughters. It was such a coincidence, that many years later, Wendy's sister, Idie, should live in a house around the corner from mine. Idie and I became close friends and have continued to be so even after her move to California. I have kept in touch with Wendy's life for many years through my relationship with Idie. Wendy has always been a unique individual and I am deeply affected by her death. I can only extend my deepest sympathies to the family. Please know that you will always be in my thoughts. - Margo Schiff, 7/8/2009 7:42:59 AM I knew Wendy in 1982 when she was Wendy Jo Silver. We met in a sailing class. She was teaching jazz dance at the time. I have the fondest memories of her. This news of her violent passing makes me very sad. It's like part of my life died too, and that the happiness I felt because of her is no longer valid. I hope they quickly find the perpetrator of this crime. More importantly, I hope her soul finds its way to heaven. From this tribute page, it looks like she brought joy into many peoples' lives - not just my own. - Bob Bugiada, 7/5/2009 9:35:52 PM John, Thanks ever so much for this Tribute site for Tree (Wendy). The girls on her LivingRoom site miss her so much. I come here everyday to see if someone else has written anything. The pics help and looking foward to seeing the ones you take at the BBQ Memorial for her. She talked of you all so often. Visiting with her almost everyday for over 10 years, and to have this to happen, has left a huge hole in our lives. Talking with her friends has helped. I pray that they find who has done this to our sweet sweet Tree. Thanks again for doing the site for her. - Rita (Reets) Holifield, 7/5/2009 7:29:41 PM I knew Wendy years ago and she helped me immensely. I am so very saddened by this news. Love to her family. I know she is in heaven. - Sandi O'Leary, 7/5/2009 9:46:25 AM Thank you for this web site. I wish I could have known her. I wish I could have seen her dance. She is surely an inspiration to us women who are over 55! Wendy, you are missed by all of us. Show the angels in heaven some of your moves! - Linda Grillo, 7/3/2009 11:23:14 AM I am in shock - I live in the Pierpont area and met Wendy when I got my boxer puppy Mojo. We met in Marina Park. She was taking pictures of the dogs playing to put in her book, "The Magic of Animals - Mojo is in the book! I just found out today that the victim was Wendy - I had no idea. I am so sorry and so upset - Wendy was the NICEST SWEETEST most caring lady. I still can't believe it was her! She listened to me when I told her about my horse Zim, and came out to take pictures of Zim and I - we are in her book too! He is the horse that is playing with his frisbee. Again, my most heartfelt sympathies, and I am so upset - I wish I could have gone to her funeral. PLEASE let me know if there is anything I can do. I hope they catch the animal who did this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! - Sandi Pearce, Handzim, and Mojo, 7/3/2009 9:24:41 AM Dearest loved ones of Wendy -- I truly believe that Wendy must have visited me here today, because for some unknown reason I thought I should check the internet today regarding Wendy and her book. I was saddened to learn of the tragedy of her death. I hardly knew Wendy -- but it was obvious that she was an extraordinary and lovely person who will be greatly missed. My condolences to everyone she has left behind -- but remember she is smiling down on all of us and guiding our way. God bless you all. - Alice V McLean, Las Vegas, NV, 6/28/2009 12:09:37 PM Dearest family & friends of Wendy- Tears are flowing out of my soul and down my face --I just found out about this tragedy a few minutes ago. Here are a few of my favorite fond memories of Wendy: Hanging out together at Ryan and Talia's wedding (we had lots of good heart to heart conversation and lots of belly-laughs that day; Visiting just the two of us at Talia's bridal shower (we had secret plans to crawl under the table and escape the crowds if need be); and of course, the trip to Balboa Island with Idie (Wendy always ready for a laugh and a hug). What a sweet girl! Our prayers are with you all. - Paula Gregg, 6/27/2009 5:02:15 PM In mid-July many of Wendy's swing dance friends are holding a dance BBQ at my home in her honor. During the last party at my home (December 08) Wendy was with us and I had the pleasure of dancing with her several times. I will miss her. I will post some pictures of the event here. - John Dickson, 6/26/2009 10:38:55 PM Mrs. Silver- I don't know if you remember me; Wendy brought you to my house in Culebra. My mother was visiting with me while you were visiting Wendy and the 4 of us spent time together. Wendy was my closest friend in Culebra. We spent a lot of time and laughs together. She stayed at our house during hurricanes while her house was being built and kept an eye on our house when we weren't there. I am so sorry for your loss. I know that there are no words that can ease your pain- I have been in your shoes- my son was also murdered a few years ago. Wendy knew him. The pain of losing one's child can not be described. I wish you, your husband and all of Wendy's family and close friends some peace in your lives and hope that her murderer is caught and punished to the fullest extent. My husband and I think of Wendy often and were shocked and pained to learn of her murder. We are so very sorry. - Linda Buschiazzo , 6/20/2009 7:30:40 PM I did not know you but feel I have. Through your beautiful face, and the things friends have described about you. I wish I could be only half of what you have been to others in your life. You were younger than your 61 years. I know in my heart if justice is to be found for anyone's life taken away, way too soon, justice will be found for you Wendy, your family, your friends, and everyone you had contact with. You sweet girl. I am so sad because I know you gave, and had so much more to give! Love you Wendy,May you be an Angel now to all you loved. Love, - Another Ventura County Girl, 6/20/2009 5:43:52 PM psst wendy, remember what we talked about...oprah knows... thats all i will say!!!! i'll make you proud! and ricky will be starting his ged classes soon just like he promised you!!!! keep smiling up there. everythime i think about you i just can see you " dancing with the angels". love always and forever, - Sarah and Ricky, 6/20/2009 11:45:34 AM Wendy, its only been a few weeks, but this has been the hardest thing i've ever come across in my life. i miss you so much and it hurts so bad to know that i will never get to see you again. but i can feel you with me, in everything i do. i just want to make you proud.everything i do, i do it for you. we will meet again. i love you more than anything. forever in my heart, love sarah - Sarah, 6/19/2009 8:26:29 AM I just returned from the east coast after spending several months away from the dance community assisting my elderly father who suffers with LBD. I am deeply shocked to learn that "Dr. Wendy", as we affectionately called her, a woman full of light and laughter, at the peak of her life's journey, embracing all she worked so hard to achieve (with the vitality and appearance of a woman much younger then her actual age), had her precious life snuffed away so abruptly. It angers me that her family and her many friends are now deprived of seeing her, hearing her laugh again, listen to her humorous stories, see her sparkling smile and the slightly shy, unassuming way she encountered us at the dances.   The last time we talked she was so proud of completing her book on relationships and about having written a book about animals. The book was unreleased at the time and we giggled about her choice of putting a big full moon on the cover. She had mentioned that the moon symbolized a circle, but she would reveal no more. She promised to bring a signed copy of the book to the next dance. In the same conversation she spoke to us a little in Brazilian Portuguese, not an easy dialect to learn. She talked about the travels she's made to foreign countries but particularly Brazil and that she seemed determined to improve her communication with the local people. After much angry denial that she is no longer with us on this plane, I accept that "Dr. Wendy" is strongly with us in spirit. I regret that I won't have a signed copy of her book or get to know more about her. She has obviously left a bountiful legacy for her beloved family, clients, students and dance friends.   Wendy, we are all suffering deeply that your life ended so tragically. The selfish, evil act gnaws at us and we want answers. In order to cope and heal collectively we must rise above the low level from which this "terrorist" operated and begin to forgive. This way we stay out of the darkness of the perpetrator's sick M.O. The family especially, must rise above, do not let the shroud of darkness overcome you. I pray that Wendy's precious family will eventually become enlightened through this dark period...it will take time. I empathize deeply with Wendy's Mother and Father, sisters and brother. My family, too suffered the loss of my younger sister at the hands of another in a violent crime 20 years ago committed in California.   To Florence Silver: may your family be open to receive only the good merits of a loving, higher guidance that now embraces and protects your treasured daughter's "neshoma" while also looking out for you and your family. No parent should have to bury their child as a result of a crime. Know that your cherished daughter's legacy will not be forgotten as her life was not lived in vain. If I can assist you or your family to ease your pain a little don't hesitate to get in touch with me. I am sending you a copy of 3 photos I took of Wendy last Christmas. I pray that you will swiftly find closure, that your pain will subside and that you will allow yourselves to be bathed in the soothing light of peace even if the answers are not completely clear. Here are 3 links to photos I took of Wendy and a dancer friend Tom, at John's last Christmas party: http://picasaweb.google.com/lotipix/JohnDicksonSXmasParty08?authkey=Gv1sRgCLaUndDgkZTCKQ#5277421002158381170 http://picasaweb.google.com/lotipix/JohnDicksonSXmasParty08?authkey=Gv1sRgCLaUndDgkZTCKQ#5277421007834582610 http://picasaweb.google.com/lotipix/JohnDicksonSXmasParty08?authkey=Gv1sRgCLaUndDgkZTCKQ#5277421033185094930 - Lois, 6/18/2009 2:08:03 PM Dear Idie and family: Words are inadequate in describing how sorry I am for the loss of your dear sister, Wendy. Please know that I am thinking of you and including you in my prayers. Your friend from the Acorn, - Michelle Knight, 6/18/2009 9:59:29 AM Bassick High School, Bridgeport, Connecticut Wendy was my first "real" girlfriend . It was 1964. Wendy was a year behind me. We went to my senior prom together. When we walked you had to be careful not to step on an ant. When I picked up Wendy for a date I would be greeted by her mom and waited for Wendy to descend the steps while looking at her dad's pinball machine. Wendy was so smart that she bypassed her senior year in high school.I followed her adventures from France to Sweden to Puerto Rico to New Haven, Ct,, California,New York and other parts of the world. We always managed to find each other and recently we were in frequent contact. Wendy was and continues to be the best a person was meant to be. I kinder, gentler and sensitive person has never existed. Just about 45 years of a wonderful experience in the truest meaning of "friendship" that to my minds continues on. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Silver family during this time of a loss that makes no sense and that no one can understand. - Mark Wallack, Camden Maine, 6/16/2009 5:49:10 AM Our thoughts and prayers are with you, your family and loved ones. May you find strength, support and courage to help you through these difficult times. A life lost, a community shattered, but memories can never be lost or shattered. Their beauty is eternal. - The Bilhams, 6/15/2009 11:53:38 AM I wish to love you even more. To share, to love, to share what is in my heart. I wished by sharing my love and hopes to share more with you. (And, take nothing from you!) I wondered if I might have shared things that might have given you fears or doubts about sharing, my wishing to share. I did, have and still - love so much. I wished to share all of me, with out taking anything from you, with out needing from you - except to share love with you. I am saying too much - sorry. I want to share what I tried to shared with you. And, I am ever so sorry that my hopes, dreams and wishes to share, to give you. Was in my wishes and I am ever so sorry that that sharing might have caused you to look in other places, wonder about things I might take from you - Rather then offer to share and want to love you Wishing - Rolan - Rolan, 6/14/2009 7:43:45 PM Wendy, i miss you so much and everyone who visits this page probally knows how i feel by now. but i'll never stop telling you that i love you more thank anything. im trying to keep all the sad and hearbreaking things out of my head and i just want to think that you showing everyone in heaven how to dance! we just shared our birthday on the 1st. i know it will never be the same without you, but you present is still comming. i know your not physically here for me but i can feel you warm hugs and i see your beautiful smile all the time. you'll know what is its because i promised you!! i love you grammy tree and you are forever in my heart. all i want to do is make you proud!!! we will meet again and dance it up!!!!! so much love and kisses rest easy and keep dancing! love always and forever from the bottom of my heart, - Sarah and Ricky, 6/14/2009 1:43:03 PM Wendy, every day your in my thoughts and prayers, and everything i do i'm doing it for you. all i want to do is make you proud. you wait and see ricky and i will keep all the promises we made :) i love you so much and i miss you more than words can explain. just please watch over all of us. we will meet again one day. i love you grammy tree. flory and david, i cant even begin to imagine what you are going through, i know how hard its been for the rest of us. please just keep your heads up and stay strong. i love both of you so much. thank you for welcoming me into your home and for all the wonderful memories. please keep in touch and give inky and mimi all the love in the world for me. i love you, love, - Sarah, 6/12/2009 3:39:20 PM My deepest sympathies go out to Wendy’s family and loved ones. I was out town for a week and did not hear until now. I was deeply shocked and saddened to learn of Wendy's death. Wendy death is such a loss but I count my self so very lucky to have known her, I have only the best memories of Wendy. Being cheerfully greeted by her where ever I went up to Carrillo will remain a deep very and loving memory of her. Wendy was always full of joy & enthusiasm; she was always the most fun person to dance with so quick to smile. Wendy was such a bright and compassionate person. I will hold in my hart the precious very memories of her. - Bob Leho, 6/12/2009 3:24:06 PM Wendy, I loved the time we spent. From the start we could not even look at each other and not laugh. How many swing classes did we interrupt with our laughter? We shared the animal connection and her dogs were a part of her. Sometimes we did not talk for months but just a few minuets on the phone and it was like we had never missed a beat. One time I called on my way to a business meeting in Orange County and said be ready in 15 mins. She said that was impossible but she put the finishing touches on in the car and we had a great time fine food and as always super conversation. I had Wendy on my radio show "Petpointers" to talk about the human animal bond. Our relationship was always so off the wall, I started to worry, just about air time, if she could be serious on the air. She made one of the very best shows that I ever did! She was a true professional as Dr. DiRodio. The last time I saw her she wrote this in her new book for me. "To Greg "dr4pets" My friend who truly cares about me. Best Wishes Dr. Wendy DiRodio." Dear Wendy I do and always will care about you. We all miss you! - Greg McDonald, 6/12/2009 1:26:06 PM This is Annie...how truly blessed we've been to have you in our lives! Sarah and I were talking about when we were awaiting your arrival back in 2002, we saw you in the front seat..the minute you spotted us, you started bouncing up and down with so much excitment, the vehicle was barely stopped, you jumped out and you burst into our arms! What awesome memories! I wish so hard that this was just a bad dream. The shock & heartache are so overwhelming, I have no idea how to get through the day. As you can see, many hearts ache for you, we all miss you terribly, but like Carolyn said "we need to hang in there and walk tall" We miss you in the LivingRoom, but will continue in your memory. I recognize so many names on this wonderful tribute page because of how much you cared about everyone...you loved with all your heart and soul. Flory, thank you for opening your heart and home to Sarah when she visited...that meant so much to her to be able to spend time with Wendy. I'm so sorry that this had to happen. My heartfelt condolences to you Flory, David,the entire Silver Family as well as Inky and MiMi. I love you with all my heart, Tree. We sure miss you....rest in peace my dear. - Annie, 6/11/2009 6:16:46 PM I am so saddened for your loss. I just read about this, I live in Tennesee but I love California and feel those who live there are blessed. But when something so unbelievably senseless like this happens it makes me very sad for the friends and family of the victim. Wendy sounds like she was a very special lady and I'm sure she will be terribly missed. Thank you for letting me post my condolences - Debra Murray, 6/11/2009 4:21:13 PM Wendy, Family and Friends, I have no connection with you or any of your friends except for the fact that I am a native Venturan of 57 years. Unfortunately, peaceful Ventura has been rocked by recent horrific killings. Rest in Peace, my fellow Venturan, and I pray for those that are missing you as the fun and beautiful person that you obviously are. I also pray that your killer be found and brought to justice. To all the Family and Friends, I share in your sadness.... :-( - Tom McConica, 6/11/2009 12:54:57 PM Rocky, I have been in shock and deeply sadden by the loss of your sister. I have had the honor of knowing you and your family for almost 20 years and there are not enough words to describe your kindness, generosity, unselfishness, helpfulness, empathy, and compassion. This horrific tradegy is so unbefitting you and your family who always and constantly outreach to improve the lifes of every one irregardless of socioeconomic status or ethnicity. You and your mother are still serving our community by working as nurses @ Rehabilitation Institute in Santa Barbara which is over a 30 mile commute. There was a wonderful article in the Santa Barbara Newspress about the great work of "dynamic mother/daughter team". I certainly do not feel like I can take the place of your sister but I have always felt a sisterly connection. If there is anything I can do please do not hesitate to let me know. I am here for you. I will be in Santa Barbara on 6/16/09. See you soon. My deepest condolences to you and your family. - Yvonne Sawyer, 6/11/2009 12:06:45 PM Rest in Peace, Wendy. Meeting you - another person with hives - was one of the most remarkable days of my life, and I will always treasure that day we spent together laughing and crying and talking. And to your parents, I met you for only a few minutes, but I knew right away that you are good, kind people, and my heart breaks for you. Your daughter was remarkable and touched many, many lives. - Jackie, 6/10/2009 5:35:40 PM What a beautiful tribute for a beautiful lady. It is clear that Wendy was well-loved and left a deep impression on all who knew her. A life well-lived that should be celebrated. I hope in time that will overcome the pain of losing her in such a tragic way. I have always admired the strong bond you have with each other, a gift I know you cherish. Your family is on my mind, in my thoughts and in my heart constantly. Please know that there is tremendous love surrounding you and that we are here for you. All my love, - Sophia, 6/10/2009 9:57:32 AM Dear Mr. and Mrs. Silver, We are so deeply saddened to hear of the loss of your beloved daughter and our dear friend Wendy. She was so cheerful, friendly and warm. We loved her compamy every time we were with her. The world has lost a beautiful spirit, but she will live on in our memories. We pray for your healing as you cope with this tragic event, and hope you will be surrounded by loving family and friends to soothe you. Warmly, - Norm and Jackie De Sitter Krock, 6/9/2009 9:06:43 PM My name is Gingy and I was blessed to be in a group of women of which Wendy, Tree, as she was known to us, was also a member. I hear her voice and see her smile and my heart is broken in two. She was so happy in these last few months and her life was unfolding into joyous beginnings. I pray she is in a better place, nd that the fiend that did this horrific deed will meet with his just reward. I was honored and blessed to have had known her, she will remain with me forever. My heartfelt condolences to her entire family, and MiMi and Inky too. - Gingy Schneider, 6/9/2009 5:44:26 PM Wendy, I remember your smile that is what I remember most. I also remember how much fun we always had when we did, always keeping you on your toes. What a loss to our community. My regrets to Wendy's family and may the prayers and love that is shared here comfort us all. Always remember to tell those that you love, how much you love them. - Derrick Curtis, Santa Barbara, 6/9/2009 12:33:37 AM I am Carolyn from North Carolina. I send Prayers and Angels to all of you that loved Tree (Wendy). Yes, I am one that suffered the hives with Tree. She kept me from scratching my skin off. She and all the others on the web site have been blessed. We know what friendship and love and caring are. There will never be a time when I don't think of her and some of the funny things she said and did. If I could have bottled her energy, you would be talking to a very rich woman. But you're not. I just have the best memories stored in my mind and heart. Enough to last me a lifetime. She was so special to me. Even my cat loved to hear her voice on the phone. She helped my get through Miss Scarlett's passing. God really loved her. I did too. She really knew how to make a person feel special. So did Flory, her Mom. Flory I love you and know you love me too. I know how much Tree loved all of you. We are all special people because she loved us. Hang in there and walk tall. See you again someday Tree. Keep laughing. I am so proud to call you "Friend". Love Carolyn in North Carolina - Carolyn Barrow, 6/8/2009 9:04:00 PM My heartfelt condolences to the Silver family and friends. I don't know any of you but I am deeply saddened to hear of the loss of your perfectly beautiful daughter. I hope there is some comfort for you in knowing that even people you don't know share your pain and are thinking of you. - Kathy Willingham, 6/8/2009 8:25:05 PM Wendy, I miss you so much. How could this happen to ,in my eyes and alot of other peoples,the most perfect woman I've ever met. You changed my life so much since the day I met you.Ricky is going to be starting his GED classes just like he promised you. Everything I do Wendy, I do it for you. I think about you all the time and I see your smiling face where ever I go. Rest easy Wendy, we will see eachother again one day. Please watch over me. I love you from the bottom of my heart, Love always and forever, Sarah & Ricky anyone from trees website please get in contact with me if you see this sjy6188@yahoo.com - Sarah & Ricky, 6/8/2009 2:51:18 PM My deepest condolences to all your family and friends. What a terrible and trajic event for any family to have to suffer. My thoughts and prayers go out to you - Idie you are in my thoughts and prayers daily. Whatever I can offer you in support I am always here. Kerrie Fornataro - 805-889-4126 The Acorn Newspapers. - Kerrie & Kirk Fornataro, 6/8/2009 1:25:56 PM For all of us who knew and loved 'Tree', as Wendy was known to us in her online support group, she will be missed so much. I have been in shock since hearing this devastating news. I can't believe such a vibrant life was taken and in such a brutal manner. I want to extend my condolences to the entire Silver family--Florence, you are in my thoughts and prayers, and also to Wendy's other friends. Many of the names on here I recognize, as she has spoken to us about you and I know she valued your friendship(s) so much. She will never be forgotten. I hope they figure out who committed this unspeakable crime. Rest in peace, Tree. - Tami Richman, 6/8/2009 12:40:48 PM Dear Idie and family, My thoughts, prayers and deepest heartfelt condolences to you all. - Donna Bondy, 6/8/2009 12:01:40 PM This is terribly sad and I hope the police find the killer of this beautiful lady soon. Having lost a brother ten months ago in a sudden and tragic manner, I know how very difficult this will be for her family and friends. It is so very unfair that someone so kind, alive and helping met such a brutal end. May her family and friends do something in her name that she would love to enlarge her legacy and to help themselves with this horrible tragedy. My deepest sympathy and wish for here family and friends to find peace, knowing that it won't be easy. - Suzanne, 6/8/2009 3:37:27 AM Dear Mrs. Silver, you probably don't remember me, but Wendy took care of my dog, Brody, some 4 years ago. I know you were both upset with me for not calling and leaving dog overnight. However, didn't have your number and then was too late at night to call. I was truly sorry. Wendy was a kind lady, loving with Brody and I was very saddened to read what happened. Please forgive me also for not being able to attend your Passover dinner. My name is Ruth Zitron. I had lost my mom in 2004 and was having a most difficult time getting over her loss. You're a strong woman and thank god you have other children. All the best to you and your family. - Ruth Zitron, 6/7/2009 11:36:17 PM Dearest Idie, This evening I received news of the tragic loss of your beautiful sister Wendy. My heart feels devastated for you and your precious family. I remember sitting across from the table from Wendy at Talias bridal shower. It was a honor to meet her. My loving thoughts and prays go out to each of you, and so wish that love, peace and strength be wrapped around you and Florence, your father, Talia and Ryan, and the entire family and friends. Most lovingly, Mary Ann Lambert - Mary Ann Lambert , 6/7/2009 11:27:25 PM Dear Mr. and Mrs. Silver, I extend my heartfelt sympathy to you both during this tragic time. I know what a remarkable women you are Florence. Your love, wisdom, and strength that you have shared with your daughters. Priceless gifts between you all. May somehow, you feel the strength of others, receive loving hugs and comfort. Love and peace, - Mary Ann Lambert, 6/7/2009 10:42:22 PM In the short time Wendy has been gone, she is already missed so much. My mother is Emily, and Wendy was one of her best friend's. They talked daily and saw each other nearly that much. I first met Wendy at her first book signing with my dog Mocha and then was able to take her to a Keith Urban concert with my Mom, my girlfriend and me. Wendy supported my jewelry shows, came and helped with my baby shower and showed so much love to me and my family. I love her and always will. Watching my Mom's heart break is so difficult. There is no way I will ever understand how this monster(s) could ever bring themselves to hurt such a beautiful soul. She was getting ready to start a whole new journey of her life! I guess she still will just much different than expected. I pray for everyone whose life Wendy touched and all who are hurting. I hold in the light her dear Mother and my Mother. My love to you Wendy. This world has lost an amazing woman! - Amy Dalgleish, 6/7/2009 10:21:26 PM To the family of Wendy, My prayers go to the family for having to try to cope and understand why this horrible tragety happened. To my dear friend Idie, I can only imagine what life would be like without my sister. There simply are no words to express such sorrow. Honestly. The world stops when something like this happens to a loved one. You are deep in my thoughts and prayes. Please give my love to your parents. - Donna Dyer, 6/7/2009 7:24:17 PM We are so sorry to see Wendy, such a bright and compassionate light leave us. I am angry and sad that someone took her precious life. My heart goes out to family and friends. Wendy's joy always showed with a radiance in her smile, and sweet enthusiam for people, animals and dancing. She had a lovely spirit. - Nancy, 6/7/2009 12:39:09 PM Words cannot express how sorry I am about Tree's (that was what she was to us on her web site of 10 women who have talked now on the internet for 10 years) death. She will always be our sweet Tree. SHe started our group from a site where we met each other to talk about urticaria(giant hives) which she had suffered from most of her life. She helped us all. SHe traveled all over the United States about 5 years ago to meet all of us individually and then I myself was fortunate to come to LA for my sons wedding and got to spend the day with her and her dancing friend Tom at Venice Beach. SHe was lovely. She found good in everyone. WE will miss this free spirited lady in our lives so much. With love to her family, Rita (Reets), Moundville Alabama - Rita (Reets), 6/7/2009 11:14:13 AM You are in our hearts at this very moment. Wish we were with you. Love, - Marilyn, Layne and Genia, 6/7/2009 11:00:14 AM The shock and deep sadness we all feel over Wendy's death is truly overwhelming. It's so hard to believe she's gone. I first met her in 2003 when she took Lindy Hop classes from me and Chris in Ventura. She was always friendly, sweet, and full of energy. I will miss her beautiful smile and warm hugs. My heart goes out to her family at this difficult time. God bless you. - Teresa Johnson, 6/6/2009 10:44:59 PM I would like to say that my grandmother lived in Port Hueneme for more than 20 years on Ventura Road and Channel Islands. My sister is currently living in Ventura and knew the Husted's through teaching. She called to tell me the terrible news about the parents of one of her students. She said she saw the couple at the Ventura Fair before they were murdered and the whole town was mourning their death. I noticed that the media never mentioned a family dog. Where was Wendy's dog when the killer entered her home? Did she have a dog? If there is a similarity in this case it would be that the killer went straight to their bedrooms and escaped an altercation with a barking dog. I can only imagine as if in a Novel that Husted's Murderer knew Wendy through her Couceling and became paranoid. For all of Wendy's wisdom of the "Magic of Animals" and her own ability to bark she could not save herself. But I think her message is clear. A dog is man's best friend. Your dog will defend you and protect you. Be smart. Lock your doors and sleep with your dog. God Bless - Peggy H., 6/6/2009 9:30:12 PM i did not know this woman, nor have i ever seen her, but the immense loss you must feel is saddening. I am so sorry for the loss of a dear beloved, i have never lost someone that was too dear to me, but i fear it every day. I just hope that where ever Wendy is, she is happy. - Matthew Berntsen, 6/6/2009 9:23:39 PM I am thinking of you all and absolutely in disbelief at such a tragic loss for us all! The dancing community loved her and still does. My wish is that justice will be served and swiftly, and that law enforcement will step up and do it's job to find this criminal(s?) and stop these mad killings. My heart goes out to you all. Just know that Wendy will always remain a precious being. - Corey, 6/6/2009 6:59:00 PM I was deeply saddened and shocked to learn of Wendy's death. This wonderful tenderhearted woman was my counselor in the 1990's and always treated me with respect, compassion, genuine interest, and care and concern. Simly put, she was precious. To her parents and to the rest of her family and friends, my deepest sympathies. "May the Lord bless you and keep you, may He make His face shine upon you and be gracious to you, May he turn His face towards you and give you peace." - Sharon, 6/6/2009 6:53:20 PM Dear Wendy's family & friends, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. We are sorry for your loss. Love. - Ria Joseph, 6/6/2009 6:45:27 PM Although I didn't know Wendy very well, she was a really cute and funny person! I'm really outraged & angry that someone should die in such an unneccessary and violent way! why do women always have to be victims???????????????? I am praying for her family & I hope the %$*&! who killed her will be caught & suffer the concequences !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! - RAQUELLE JULCA, 6/6/2009 5:23:42 PM Wendy: We are indebted to you for the joy you brought to the dances. Your teaching showed extra effort and care for all to learn and improve. You danced with patience and encouragement for all whether beginner or advanced. Your kindness was a gift to all who knew you. You will be missed at each and every dance. Our thoughts are with your family. - Jim Ligman & Kathy Bushnell, 6/6/2009 3:46:40 PM Dear Mrs. Silver, Idie, Talia, Chris and all the other members of this very special family, Words cannot fill the hole that must be left in your lives right now, but perhaps knowing that people whose lives you have all touched are thinking of you and mourning with you may give you some comfort and help you through this horrendous time. With much love, - Perry and Linda Lemle Goldberg, 6/6/2009 12:57:26 PM To the Silver Family = this is Betty from Chicago a member of Trees Living Room or Urticara support group. I am devestated by this news. I spoke to Wendy on Tuesday and she had such a wonderful birthday and was so energetic about all that was happening in her life and we talked about making plans for me to stay in the guest room of the new house! We talked about the children's book I wrote called Inky and Mimi's Big Adventure should be the next book she put out! I can't believe this My love and prayers are with you all. Please call me if you need anything, if there is anything I can do to pay tribute to her I will. She was a hero to me and a mentor and I will miss her more than you know. - Betty Bezak, 6/6/2009 12:47:27 PM I did not know Wendy and came here through the link on a newspaper site. Wendy, your smile and your love for life is so evident by your beautiful pictures and the comments from your friends. This page has brought tears to my eyes even though I never knew you. My sincere condolences to your friends and family! It just doesn't seem fair that you have been taken off this earth when you had so much to give to others. May you rest in paradise. God bless your parents during this difficult time. - Julie, 6/6/2009 12:05:31 PM I knew Wendy through dancing. Although our encounters were brief, she was happy, smiling and full of energy and compliments every single time. Wendy was clearly a beautiful spirit and she brightened my day each time we spoke. I am sad to not have the opportunity to get to know her better. She will be missed even by those of us who only knew her in passing. My deepest condolences to all of Wendy's family and friends. - Lynne Vance, 6/6/2009 9:57:30 AM This is just so sad and senseless. I knew Wendy from swing dancing and will remember her warm and welcoming spirit...she will be missed. - Virginia, 6/6/2009 9:49:43 AM to wendy, the best friend and mentor i ever had in my life. i never thought i would have to say good bye to someone who was so happy and full of life. may my deepest condolences go out to the entire silver family. wendy i love you and i know you are watching over me. i know your in a good place. we will see each other one day. i miss you and love you. - Sarah Yusella, 6/6/2009 9:28:04 AM I started taking swing dance lessons from Jonathan and Sylvia at about the same time that Wendy started. She was such a wonderful person, always upbeat and smiling, a real pleasure to dance and be with. I will always remember Wendy on the dance floor, in her white socks and suede-soled tennies, having a marvelous time. The whole community mourns Wendy’s passing, and we keep the Silvers in our thoughts. - Chris Proulx, 6/6/2009 9:12:11 AM Wendicita, my friend, I am so sorry for such a horrible horrific pain you suffered. So sorry, I wish I could hold you in my arms and comfort you, somehow....somehow, with the touch that only angels know. You will be in heart for ever. You were a such a gift in my life. Thanks for listening, thanks for counseling me, thanks for making me laugh. The last time I saw you, you had a big smile...you had finished your book, I am so proud of you. I know, my friend, were you are there is music, beatiful music, and there, all the doggies can dance! Love you! - Claudia, 6/6/2009 9:05:08 AM God be with you all. - Tina, 6/6/2009 9:04:56 AM Wendy seemed to live a full and happy life. Although I do not know her and learned of your loss through the news, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Sending condolences from Georgia. May your family find peace, love, and strength as you all go through the ceremonies in the coming days. - Rebekah, 6/6/2009 8:37:42 AM To be absent from the body, is to be present with the LORD!!!! - Pastor Eric D Jones Sr., 6/6/2009 7:45:10 AM My dearest Family, Flory & David, Rocky & Idy, and all the kids (Gina, Meg, & all your children) We are all so horrified and in shock here in New York. Our love pours out to each one of you. We remember Wendy with that huge smile that oozed out love and compassion. Flory, you have spent your entire life taking care of your dear, dear family. I am so very saddened that this tragedy could happen to your darling Wendy. Thank goodness Nana and Aunt Francie are not here to witness this. We all love you so much and our arms are all around you supporting you through this time. With so much love, your family in New York. Debra & Arlene - Debbie Trolman (Arlene's Bachner/Trolman's daughter), 6/6/2009 3:44:03 AM My husband and I live in Canada and did not know Wendy, but we spend time in Malibu yearly and were deeply affected upon hearing of what happened. We are also avid animal lovers and after reading of the wonderful book Wendy wrote, "The Magic of Animals", we ordered a copy. We wish it hadn't taken this devasting tragedy for us to learn of her book. From seeing her beautiful photos and reading about her, we know she was a wonderful and lovely human being, if only more were like her. Our deepest condolences to Wendy's parents, family and friends, we know that words cannot express the depth of sadness over this. Take care and know many are thinking of you during this extremely difficult time. - Darlene Vezey-Copetti, 6/6/2009 3:21:17 AM I have spent alot of time in the Keys and I was shocked to hear not only that this poor woman was so brutally murdered, but that her aged parents and her family have to endure this horrible tragedy. I doubt there is anything anyone can say that could ever put an ounce of semblance to this heinous crime and this useless, non human perpetrator. What can I or any of us say other than I wish the harshest penalty for this sub human who affected so much pain for these poor parents and family. A loving daughter who was giving back to those who brought her into this world who at this time in their life could not afford her loss. God bless~ - Ms. T, 6/6/2009 1:25:07 AM I am sorry to hear about the tragedy. She was a wonderful woman. I worked with her family for many years at Economy Upholstery. My heart goes out to Florence and David Silver. - Lorri, 6/6/2009 12:42:20 AM Gosh, we love you so much. I thought it was strange when you emulated sounds of dogs whining and barking -- now I know, you were so very connected with the animal world and the relation to us humans. Thanks so much for being my so infrequent dance partner! - Rob Godfrey, 6/6/2009 12:23:02 AM I am so deeply sorry for your loss. We will say a prayer for Wendy as we face the waves and wish you solace as you greieve the loss of such a beautiful daughter and friend. From Hawaii... - Elaine Quinten Scuppy Michael and all the animals..., 6/5/2009 11:19:07 PM Wendy was my counselor "therapist" back in the early to mid 90's, she was more than a counselor, she empowered me, she pushed me, she stood by me and is more than partially responsible for who I am today. I have often thought about and looked for her, I was sure she would have been so proud as to how I had turned out. She was almost maternal, and I am sure that had we not had that Patient client clause we would have been friends. I remember once, I was so brough beaten and had such low self esteem, that on one of our sessions she accompanied me to city college to sign up...it was "my hour and my buck" she said. After my divorce, she called to check on me. Even when I could'nt pay she gave me the "sliding scale" she was the best counselor I have ever had, today I am self sufficient, a successful business woman, a home of my own and I really must admit and have always acknowledged that she had such a powerful impact in my life. She walked me through my past and helped me heal, she stood by me, encouraged me, and I can't say enough how much she helped me through one of the most difficult times in my life. My deepest sympathy to her friends and loved ones, She was an awesome woman,She went above and beyond. - Just Lori in Ventura, 6/5/2009 10:41:13 PM Anyone who could have commited such a horrific act will pay for it either now or eternally , I believe Wendy is now in heaven, what a tragic loss , words can not do justice to her spirit. - John Beftin, 6/5/2009 9:18:21 PM Can this senseless tragedy have happened to Wendy whom I first met when she was perhaps sixteen, a blithe spirit, free, bold and part of such a special family. Wendy so intense and so vibrant. Your East Coast friends mourn with your family, friends and dance partners. We are with you in spirit always. You are in our hearts forever as are your loving family. May you all find peace. - Ellen Kaplovitz, 6/5/2009 8:52:01 PM I do not know what possible words of comfort I could say with a tragedy such as this. You all are so heavy in my thoughts and prayers. When you grieve, I grieve. I will see you at the memorial service Sunday. - Wendy Berg, 6/5/2009 7:13:01 PM I did not know Wendy, but was touched by her warm smile in the photos. She sounds like a person full of fun and enjoyed her many friends. How horrible for someone to take her life. I feel so sorry for her elderly parents, and especially for her mother to have found her. I hope the police catch this good for nothing creep. (And that's putting it nicely.) - Linda, 6/5/2009 6:25:14 PM The last time I saw Wendy she was so excited to have her book in hand! We'd talked so much about it--I'm really glad she got to see it published. What a fun friend, great dancer, and amazing woman she was! Love you, Wendy! - Sandy Burris, 6/5/2009 5:38:11 PM Wendy, I will always miss you. You were one of the reason I would love to come to work on Fridays. I will miss your smile. God be with you and your family. - Stephanie Hardy, City of Santa Barbara, 6/5/2009 5:20:50 PM I am deeply saddened and shocked by the sudden loss of Wendy. Wendy was such a joy to dance with, fast, slow, or in-between. She had developed a strong passion for dancing all her life, to go along with her passion for animals and people, too. Her "happy laugh" was always contagious. My deepest condolences go to her parents, the Silvers. Wendy was a significant part of your lives. My sincerest sympathies also go to all of Wendy's friends and loved ones who cared so much about her. I will truly miss her. - Steve Carlan, 6/5/2009 5:18:57 PM may the lord be with you and yours during your time of sorrow...Its sad to think there are people in this world who do not care about other humane beings. I hope they find the person or people involved in this horrific crime. GOD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU...........AUBURN WASHINGTON - Kevin P Montgomery, 6/5/2009 4:35:36 PM When I first started dancing eight years ago, I saw Wendy at my first dance and thought,"I want to dance like her someday!" She always looked like she was having so much fun with the dance. Her welcoming smile, open conversations, joy and compassion were just a few of the qualities I so admired about her. My deepest sympathies go to her family and loved ones. - Gretchen Esparza, 6/5/2009 4:02:16 PM Wendy you were a bright star shining so bright here on this earth. The love and kindness you showed others will never be forgotten. Your smile and spirit will live on in the hearts of those of us you knew and loved you. I walked with you and your girls many days in the park and our conversations were always fun and enlightening. I will never forget your witty ways and how you made me laugh. We could walk, talk and laugh for hours while our dogs ran and played at our feet. What pure joy we shared together. I feel fortunate to have known you and I will never forget you my sweet friend – I pray for God's comfort and peace for your family during this extremely hard time. - Diane & Manuel Irving, ClairaBelle & Scooter, 6/5/2009 3:46:14 PM My sincerest condolences to Wendy's family and friends. As a dance acuaintance for many years in both Ventura and Santa Barbara, I witnessed Wendy's gentle nature, cheerful personality and great love of dance. As evidenced by the outpouring of warm thoughts and feelings, Wendy will be missed by many. So sad... - Tom Harmon, 6/5/2009 3:12:23 PM Wendy knew how to be a friend - she listened, she encouraged, she smiled and she let people in. I knew she would always have a moment to hear what was happening in my life. Over the years, I loved watching her energy and passion for dance transform her from a beginner to a gifted dancer. She will be missed. - Roni Flowers, 6/5/2009 2:59:56 PM We will miss Wendy greatly at the Fastrac Fitness Center. She was a lovely, kind, and joyful person, and a pleasure to have here at our gym. Our deepest condolences to her parents. - Mtich and Carolyn, 6/5/2009 2:54:18 PM Wendy was a dear friend, and I am heartbroken by this terrible news. We didn't see each other often but would stay in touch by phone. Just three weeks ago we talked for over an hour. We had a wonderful conversation and she was full of enthusiasm, joy, and humor; I was very happy for her. Wendy was a lovely person, very sweet and very kind. To her parents and family, I am so deeply sorry and sad for your loss. It's difficult to believe that this has happened..... dearest Wendy, I will miss you very much. - Annelin Hammer, 6/5/2009 2:48:34 PM Sorry, I did not know Wendy, I noticed news paper article which had link to this website. From reading the messages and seeing the photos below she seemed like a wonderful person with a loving family and many loving friends. She was truly blessed to have so many people who loved her. My deepest condolences to Wendy, her family and all her friends. God Bless you all - Lizzette, 6/5/2009 2:35:39 PM At this time of sorrow, I think back to maybe 6 years ago when Wendy purchased her first car. She was so excited! She had driven the car to the dance at the Carrillo Rec Center and wanted to show it off. So, several of us piled into her car, rolled down the windows and played a Dire Straits CD really loud while we cruised downtown Santa Barbara. It made us all feel like kids again. We all laughed so hard! She was just that way – her spontaneity and joy made us all so happy just to be around her. To her parents: There is no greater loss than to lose a child. To have your child taken from you is the greatest loss of all. The thought of your pain overwhelms me. - Treva, 6/5/2009 1:46:31 PM In the short time that I have known Wendy, she was always brimming with happiness and a cheerful, friendly way about her. My condolances to Wendy's family. She was loved by many. - Carlos, 6/5/2009 1:17:38 PM I almost never saw Wendy without a smile. She showed such joy when she danced and was always an inspiration to me. Her joy, enthusiasm and laughter were always contagious. Besides being a great swing dancer, she was always eager to listen and encourage. I know she was loved in our dance community and will be greatly missed. My heart goes out to her parents and family. Your daughter touched many lives and her memory and spirit will stay with us. - Maggie, 6/5/2009 12:56:28 PM I simply can't believe that my dear friend is gone. We talked on the phone almost every day and visited in person almost that often too, usually with her dogs Inky & Mimi & my dog Gidget. We were best friends and enjoyed wonderful times together, but now I'll never get to visit with her again, and my heart breaks. She was a truly good person and would never even think of harming another. It's so difficult to believe that someone hurt her and caused her death. To her mother and father and all those who love Wendy, I cry for your loss, and I cry for my own. I miss you, my dear friend Wendy, and I always will. I love you forever. You were one of the best friends I've ever known. May God keep you in His care now. To the person who set up this site, thank you so much. - Emily Cadiente, 6/5/2009 12:37:02 PM Wendy will be dearly missed. She was a big part of the Santa Barbara dance community. Treasure the memories you had with her and remember her great spirit. - Laura Fister, 6/5/2009 12:23:21 PM My condolences to her parents, relatives, and friends. - Filomena Ornelas, 6/5/2009 12:10:09 PM My deepest condolences to Wendy and her family. God Bless. - Eric Phillips, 6/5/2009 11:41:08 AM I am very shocked and very sad to hear this news about our friend Wendy. I met Wendy years ago through the first dance party at my home in 2004. From then on we would see each other in swing dance classes and at Friday night dances. I got to know Wendy even more through our dance parties and other dance events. Wendy was an animal lover and many times we shared stories about our pets. Many times she and I would just laugh for no specific reason when we saw each other. I think we would just remember good and funny things or just because we knew each other. I will miss her very much. My deepest sympathy to Wendy’s parents and family. - Juanita Hernandez, 6/5/2009 11:21:04 AM Services will be held at 11 a.m. on Sunday, June 7 at: Conejo Mountain Funeral Home, Memorial Park & Crematory 2052 Howard Road Camarillo, CA 93012 (805) 482-1959 Thank you for all your kind words. - Wendy's family, 6/5/2009 10:54:46 AM Wendy had a beautiful spirit and was always a joy to be around. She was also very fun to dance with. I am very sad and shocked by this news. My heart goes out to everyone who knew her. - John Ennis, 6/5/2009 10:49:34 AM My thoughts go out to you... Wendy did wonderful public service. - Larry Nimmer, 6/5/2009 10:31:43 AM A few years ago Wendy volunteered to help me teach the pre-dance beginning swing class on Friday nights just before the dance began. We already knew each other from shared classes with Jonathan and Sylvia. I told her I have a tendency to get really serious about dance and wanted her help in staying light and relaxed...helping me laugh would be good too. Turns out she was the perfect answer to that request...we laughed, taught and danced while the students joined us and invariably commented on how much fun we were having. Wendy shared my love of Balboa and we enjoyed classes and privates with Sylvia on several occasions. At the dances we really enjoyed Bal and tried to get in as many dances as possible. To say that I miss Wendy and will continue to miss her is a huge understatement. Her laughter, impishness, and teasing were loved and appreciated in a deeply personal way. I briefly spoke with her mom who was having a really tough time living with this senseless, tragic loss...it's tough for me, too. There is a black void in my life now, in time the pain and sense of loss will heal, life will be good again. For now, I miss my friend. - Rick, 6/5/2009 10:23:49 AM Wendy was one of the most vibrant, alive and friendly persons that I've met. She was a joy to dance with. My condolences and blessing to her parents at this difficult time. Know that she was, and still is much loved. - Gary Yencich, 6/5/2009 10:20:18 AM I will always remember Wendy's smile, warm friendly energy and how fun she was to dance with. Even back when I didn't know what I was doing she was so graceful, nice and appreciative. My sincerest condolences to the family. Wendy was one of the people, by her example, who inspired me to keep dancing just for the joy of it. What a reminder as to how unpredictable life can be. I will miss you Wendy. - Brian Marcotnell, 6/5/2009 10:01:04 AM You will be missed by all, I did not know you very well but knew you were a great dancer and person. May God take you in his arms with love. - Mary Hartwyk, Sparer, 6/5/2009 9:47:28 AM Wendy was fluent in several languages including Swedish, and was currently teaching herself Brazilian Portugese. She earned a Phd and was a Family Counseler and author of several books including "The Magic of Animals" and more recently "Choosing Your Way To Love" - Dr. Wendy Di Rodio. Copyright 2005 wimbooks.com. Wendy taught me how to swing dance and I treasure the times she and I made the drive up to Santa Barbara for the dances at the Carillo Rec Center. I walked acrosse Marina park yesterday with my dog waiting to see her smiling face coming my way with her beloved Inky and Mimi in tow. I will miss her very much. - Denise B., 6/5/2009 9:44:31 AM This is definitely SHOCKING news! Wendy will be missed by the dancing community and everyone that she touched. Our deepest sympathies to her parents and family. - Debbie & Vic, 6/5/2009 8:09:24 AM I met Wendy at the Carrillo Rec Center dances a few years ago. I always felt a good connection with her and looked forward to a few dances, though the line was always long due to her popularity. I haven't been attending the Rec Center dances and have been out of touch for a while, so I am shocked and saddened to hear this news. Wendy will be missed. My condolences to all. - Victor, 6/5/2009 7:45:48 AM God Bless Your Soul Wendy & wrap your parents, The Silvers in warmth, LOVE & light. This is so tragic & senseless. Rest in Peace. Your Neighbors, - Liz & Paul Callaway, 6/5/2009 7:03:09 AM We are all shocked and saddened by the sudden loss of our beloved friend Wendy Di Rodio. Wendy was a good friend to so many and loved by so many. I really loved dancing with Wendy at the Carrillo Rec Center and at all our dance parties. She was a terrific dance teacher too and just the sweetest, nicest lady you could ever meet. She will be missed. - John Dickson, 6/4/2009 9:15:02 PM

Photos of Wendy Di Rodio with friends in Santa Barbara, CA

 
Wendy Di Rodio with dance partner Rick Harmon

December 2006 - Dance Cruise

Web site contact: John Dickson